Sunday, March 31, 2013

My sister Mary


I am lucky enough to have six brothers and two sisters.  They’re awesome.  But today I’m just going to write about one of them, my sister Mary.  Recently I’ve been reminded about how especially amazing she is.

Here are eight of the reasons why she tops this week of amazingnessosity:

- Her middle name is Sylvia.

- She’s the only one of my older siblings who never beat up on me (and you can’t say, “that’s because she’s a girl”, because my younger sister beat up on me plenty and as far as I know, she’s a girl too).

- When we were growing up, she used to make chicken enchiladas for our whole family every Sunday (and they even tasted good). 

- She went on a mission before it was trendy for girls to go on a mission.

- She’s possibly the most patient person I’ve ever met.

- Some people say she’s similar to me. 

- She never got too mad at me when I used to leave the milk or cheese out on the kitchen counter (and it happened a lot, believe me).

- But the most amazing thing is that I saw her today and she was still smiling.  Incredible.    

My sister Mary, she’s awesome.  I’m proud to be her brother.

Sunday, March 24, 2013

Movies


Hello,

Back in my youngerness, I used to avoid depressing movies at all costs.  I hated them.  I would think to myself, "Why watch a depressing movie when life is already depressing?"

However, now I’m older, I’ve changed.  Somewhere in the sadness of some movies, there is peace.        

These are some of those movies.  Watch them if you want. 
  • Shadowlands
  • Becoming Jane
  • Hereafter
  • Finding Neverland
  • Driving Miss Daisy
  • Steel Magnolias

Sunday, March 10, 2013

My Boycotts

According to my students, the Harlem Shake seems pretty popular these days.  Because it’s popular, I refuse to participate in or watch any such “shakeifications”.  I’m difficult like this sometimes.    I don’t know what it is, but when lots of people like or participate in something, I go on strike.  (My mother says it’s my way of rebelling.  The Mrs. just shakes her head and sighs.)

For example, when I was a freshman at the B.Y., all my fellow freshmanites would pray over their food when we were in the Cannon Center.  Because the praying was so prevalent, I, and my roommate Stephen E. Frandsen, refused (and sometimes stole the food of those who were praying).  We refused, not because we didn’t like praying (it’s not a bad practice overall), but rather because we didn’t want to be like everyone else.  Some people want to fit in. some don’t.

Anyway, in addition to my boycott of the Shake, here are some other events/items in my life where I felt it necessary to take a principled stand.  Some I eventually gave up on.  Hopefully that won’t be the case with the Shake.

- Walmart.  It is the Great and Spacious building.  Please do not go there anymore.

- The Titanic.  For 15 years I refused to watch that movie (although I love the soundtrack, especially “My Heart Will Go On” and I love Leo).  But last year the Mrs. forced me at kitchen knife point to watch it with her.  I did.  I regret every second of it.    

- The Utah Jazz in the 1990s.  Everybody loved John and Karl.  I didn’t.  Saved me a lot of heartbreak in ‘97 and ‘98. 

- Voting for Mitt in 2012.  Obviously there were a lot who didn’t vote for him outside of Utah, but there were very few, who along with yours truly and Big Stew, held out here in the cross roads of the West (Editor’s Note:  I should confess however, that I did vote for him in 2008, but that was before he was popular so I feel okay about it).

- The New York Yankees, the Los Angeles Lakers, and the University of Utah.  I will never give in.

- The Harry Potter book series.  I refused to read the books until 2007 (the first was published in 1997).  However, after watching the fifth movie, I gave in to the pressure.  After watching the movie, I had to know what was going to happen the rest of the way. (I know, I know, it doesn’t make sense that I refused to read the books, but still watched the movies).  Since then I’ve read every book at least twice.

- My finding out the gender of the expected child.  I do not know and I do not want to know until its birth day.    

- The Snow Cone craze which hits Payson High School somewhere around the middle of May.  I refuse to give in.  I will not eat a snow cone no matter how many people tell me how good they are (Editor’s Note II: However, when I played little league baseball, I did occasionally accept the proffered free snow cone at the end of a well-played game). 

- Ever After.  When it came out in 1998, I steadfastly refused to watch it.  No way, no how.  However, when I got home from the mission somehow I caved.  I don’t regret it.  I think I cried the first time through.      

And that’s all for now.  

Thursday, February 28, 2013

Looking Back

The other day when I was cleaning the house (something I do only rarely and only when I think the Mrs. Is about to kick me out of said house) I found a cassette tape of my mission farewell (thanks to the Frandsen family).  As the Mrs. and I were listening to my nineteen year oldness, the wife asked an interesting question.  The question was, if I could go back in time and talk to myself then, what would I say about the life that lay ahead from 2000 to 2013. 

This is what 31 year old Mr./Coach Wright would tell 19 year old Elder Wright:

-          Don’t even worry, McDonalds just keeps getting better, especially the fries.

-          No matter how many days you spent writing your farewell talk or how ready you think you are for your mission, you’re not.  You have no clue.

-          Don’t even waste your time talking to Lauren Quesenberry in December, 2005 at church.  She won’t even give you the time of day.  But don’t worry, you’ll win her over eventually, it’ll just take five more years.

-          Speaking of 2005, try to skip that whole year if you can.  Hibernate or something.

-          By the year 2013 you’ll have taught at Payson High for six years.  However, deep, deep down there’s still some red.

-          Goshen is about 15 minutes west of Payson.  I know you’ve never heard of it, but you might want to check it out.  It’s pretty sweet.

-          Enjoy every second with your parents.  You just never know.

-          If you thought efy music was good in 1999, just wait.  It gets better.

-          It’ll happen when you’re 29 so just be patient.  No need to worry or get anxious.

-          And it’ll totally be worth the wait.

-          You know that temper of yours, you should probably learn to control it sooner than later.  It’ll help you avoid a couple of holes in the walls. 

-          Generally speaking, you’re on the right path.  Just keep your head down, keep expectations low, and don’t get cocky.

-          Your Mom is pretty amazing.  Just wait and see.

-          You’re going to have a step son.  I know, crazy huh.

-          But even crazier, you’re going to be a high school girls soccer coach.  And you’ll even be able to handle the giggling (most of the time).

-          Whenever you’re having a hard day, listen to Elder Holland.  That’ll usually do the trick.

-          You’re not nearly as smart as you think you are.

-          It’ll be truly an amazing experience. 


Sunday, February 17, 2013

Discoveries


I recently discovered:

1. Brigham Young once excommunicated everyone in Goshen. (In case you were wondering.)

2. A cassette tape of my mission farewell.  After listening to it, two things stuck out to me:  My voice is lower and I've become dumber.

3. Monsters Inc. has a very nice ending.  I almost cried.  How have I not noticed it before?

4. This year my interest in sports has dropped significantly.  I didn't think it was possible for me to be more nerdy and boring, but apparently it is.

5. My septic tank (at 11:30 p.m. one night while it was snowing)

6. The music section of the youth section of the lds.org section of the Internet.  I like them songs.  (And they’re free).

7. Tearing out a bathroom is relatively easy.  Putting said bathroom back together is relatively uneasy.  And it doesn't make the Mrs. particularly happy. 

8. Any woman who endures pregnancy deserves a candy bar (at the Payson School, whenever someone needs to be rewarded for extraordinary feats, they get a candy bar).  Along those lines, 99% of the male population (me included) could not handle pregnancy.  Really.

Saturday, January 19, 2013

2012

I realize this is a couple weeks late, but better late than never I always say.

Top Nine Events from 2012 (in no particular order)

  1. When Tyler Watson scored the game winning goal against Bear River.
  2. The Mrs. and I eating breakfast at the Marriott in the Washington D.C. during Thanksgiving Break.
  3. My airbag inflating when it was supposed to thus ensuring that my head only smashed into my windshield, instead of going through it.
  4. Watching The Dark Knight Rises with the Mrs. (serious).
  5. Greenleaf Dodge.
  6. Watching the primary debates with the Mrs.
  7. Any day that Holden didn’t give me the silent treatment.
  8. Anytime I lectured the soccer girls about avoiding boys.
  9. Every time I taught my U.S. studies classes (because I’m pretty sure I had the best U.S. Studies classes in the history of the Payson High School).
The Untop Nine Events from 2012 (also in no particular order

  1. My head smashing into my windshield.
  2. Losing more hair (bald by 35 is my prediction).
  3. Watching the presidential election results.
  4. Watching 10 minutes of The Bachelorette.
  5. The Spurs losing to the Thunder (still haven’t quite recovered)
  6. Every time Alabama won.
  7. Not having a downstairs bathroom because I’m handyman illiterate.
  8. Having to do homework again (although I suppose I should have expected it going back to school and all).
  9. Every time I hear our neighbor's donkey at night.

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

Why Study History


I writed this for my students.  It's long and boring.

WHY DO WE STUDY HISTORY?
Written by: Greenleaf Dodge 

I’m sure that almost every high school or junior high student, sometime during their educational experience, has asked themselves these questions: Why do we study history? Why do we have to suffer through these classes in which we have little to no interest? Although asked in moments of frustration, these are nonetheless important questions. Questions which require an answer if we are to continue to expect students to sit through the unending lectures about what we consider important dates, people, and events.
In my opinion, there are actually many answers to these questions. However, I believe one of the most important answers as to why we study the past is so that we can learn to remember. “Well,” a student might then ask, “Why is it so important to remember? Everything I learn in history class seems so distant and so boring. To me what is important is what’s going on around us today.”
Indeed, the art of remembering is sometimes pushed aside even in our history classes. Our teachers emphasize group work, creativity, critical thinking, and a whole list of other skills, but being taught to remember is sometimes considered, even by teachers, to be too tedious or pointless. But those who hold this opinion are wrong; we must continue to look back and learn about and from those who came before us.  And not only learn, but remember.  For this reason you will still hear the great teachers say, “It is important to remember that . . .” because they know that some things we should never forget.
But still I have not answered the question of the why. Why do we need to remember? There are many reasons, but today I will give you three.
The first reason we are taught about the past and asked to remember is because, in learning about the past, we are able to see first-hand what is required of us if we want to accomplish great things. When we learn about such people as Lincoln, Dr. King, and Washington, we are essentially opening up a training manual. The historian is saying to us, “Do you want to do great things? Do you want to change your family, or your community, or your country? This is how you do it. Follow these lessons learned from these people.”
And it is important to note, that we don’t just learn about greatness from famous people. (Indeed, most of us assume that we are never going to impact society like General Washington or Martin Luther King Jr.)  Rather, as we study history, we also learn how important the ordinary citizen is in changing society for the better. How would World War II have turned out differently without the everyday “citizen soldier” of the United States? How would pre Civil War society have been different without the help of the unnamed and unknown who assisted on the Underground Railroad?
By learning about the past, we are learning what we need to do today. When we experience prejudice or disunity or tyranny, we remember Martin Luther King Jr. or Abraham Lincoln or George Washington and we remember how we should act and what we should do.
The second reason we need to learn to remember is because the past helps us keep the present in perspective. Without a knowledge of history, the events of today can so easily overwhelm us. When we hear the news or read the paper, we might be tempted to feel like the world is collapsing around us or our nation is going to fail. Even in our individual lives, sometimes our hearts are broken or we might feel like there is no hope.
However, the study of history and of people teaches us that tragedy and hopelessness can, with hard work and determination, still be overcome. As a people we survived brother killing brother in the Civil War, we triumphed after Pearl Harbor, and we overcame 9/11.  Also, individually the families and loved ones of millions have pushed forward after tragedy and created for themselves a world of peace and hope.
Surely, with this knowledge and background, we can persevere today through whatever else may come our way. As we look back and remember the past, we can look forward with more hope, knowing that so many have traveled this road before us.
Finally, we need to remember the past because learning about the past helps us remember to be grateful. When we only focus on the here and now, we might be tempted to feel like life has not treated us fairly. Perhaps we don’t have as much money or friends or things as we think we deserve. Or maybe our life hasn’t run exactly as we feel it should have. But as we look back and learn about and remember people and events which have come before, we realize that many people have done much, much more with much, much less.
How can we not feel grateful when we learn about those who have suffered through so much more than we have? Think of the suffering soldiers at Valley Forge or those who froze crossing the plains. Think about those who lost everything they had in the Depression or who couldn’t go to school because of their race or gender.  Yet they did not give up.  They continued to fight and work for those things that were important to them.
The challenge is then to remember.  Remember those who have gone before.